Thursday, January 18, 2018

Rav Eiyashiv's psak regarding parenting

מרן הגרי"ש אלישיב הורה - תפזרי את הילדים אצל קרובי המשפחה ותשאירי את הבת הנושרת בבית: בעקבות הפולמוס על היחס לילדים הנושרים, וכיצד יש לנהוג עמם, 'בחדרי' מביא תיעוד מדברי הרב אורי זוהר, מגדולי העוסקים בקירוב, בו הוא מספר על הוראה של מרן הגרי"ש אלישיב לאמא לתשעה ילדים שבתה נשרה מן הדרך. 

הרב אורי זוהר פעיל בשנים האחרונות במסגרת אירגון "מענה" שמסייע בייעוץ ובהכוונה להורים שלהם ילדים נושרים. 

Tuesday, January 16, 2018

an incredible stupid comment from someone I never met

I read your article it reminded me of what you did to me while wearing your Chareidi style oversized crown black hat jacket white shirt and  tzitsis flowing .[sic]

I came to you as per advise of a Rav in Har Nof for help and comfort.

Instead you turned on me, tried everything in your self-serving megalomaniac ways to wreck my life.

I and my family got crippled by you 

after many years we recovered from your blows I would say at 95% .

The Chareidy Lady pushing the carriage into you on your way to Shachris is a temporary pain 
a temporary inconvenience.

8 year old who spent all of mincha staring at You standing unsteadily AT THE BACK OF THE SHUL BECAUSE NONE OF THE AVREICHIM WANTED TO GIVE UP THEIR SEATS.
a temporary chutzpah. You can always find another Shul to daven in. 

but your underhanded actions will stain me and my family forever.

this person never met me as is clear from his description of me and his false claims about what i did to him and his family

rav gifter's letters vol 3

light to the goyim the gra's Torah learning resulted im Kant's philosophy

ז] רעיון ״אור הגויים״ אינו מחייב כלל להתענין בכל בעיות העולם,
ושלמותו של בן ישראל לפי מסגרת התורה משמשת מגדל אור לעמים,

אור התורה שבישראל שופע דרך התורה ומשפיע על העמים, ויפה העיר
הגאון הצדיק ר׳ דניאל מובשוביץ ז״ל הי״ד, ראש התלמוד תורה דקלם,

מיסודו של ר׳ שמחה זיסל ז״ל, שבאותו זמן שישב הגר״א זצוק״ל בווילנא

שקוע בעיון התורה, בה בשעה עמד החכם קאנט בברלין וחידש הרעיון
של טוהר השכל, אבל חייב הוא בן ישראל לדעת מהמתהוה בעולם מצד

תכליתו בתכלית העולם, אבל תרומתו בפתרון הבעיות הכלליות באופן זה
של תכלית באה מתוך עלייתו ושלימותו כבן תורה, בן עם ה

Sunday, January 14, 2018

derch Eretz thoughts about chareidim--- thoughts after being deliberately rammed by a baby carriage

I am learning to see things differently since I had a stroke and I realize R kAMINETSKY IS NOT THE Biggest problem in the world rather it is a widespread self absorption at the cost of great insensitivity to others

today on the way to shacharis with the aid of my walker I was deliberately rammed by a baby carriage  by a young woman who was late for her baby sitter and she uttered not a word saying she was sorry. after all her husband,s learning is the most important thing and I was simply an obstacle that needed to be pushed aside. of course it is not just her or chareidim. what about the cute
8 year old who spent all of mincha staring at me standing unsteadily AT THE BACK OF THE SHUL BECAUSE NONE OF THE AVREICHIM WANTED TO GIVE UP THEIR SEATS

IS THIS WORSE THAN THE MODERN ORTHODOX JEW WALKING HIS ROTTWeILER WHO GOT INTO An INVOLVED DISuCSSION  with his friends on a street corner and was very annoyed when i asked him to move.   because after all i just needed to push the dog aside to get by

or the healthy 60 year old secular men and women who refuse to give up their first row seats on the bus. even if it is obvious i need a seat to avoid falling. because they are entitled

now i understand why abuse issues though well known were deliberately ignored for so many years

i have been told it is an inherent problem with Israelis- i refuse to accept that answer. because i do see kind thoughtful israelis both chareim and chilonim of all ages  every day

Monday, January 8, 2018

is r Ahron Scheter an apikorus for belittling the influence of r shteinman?

kikar hashabat

מנמיכים את הלהבות: "הגר"א שכטר אינו אפיקורס חלילה"

לאחר מלחמת ההספדים בלייקווד, ראשי הישיבות מנסים להנמיך את הלהבות: ר"י ליקווד הגר"י אולשין הבהיר כי לא התכוון חלילה לכנות את הגר"א שכטר כ'אפיקורס'. שני הרבנים ייפגשו בברוקלין? (עולם)

Sunday, January 7, 2018

Trump, Defending His Mental Fitness, Says He’s a ‘Very Stable Genius

ny times

WASHINGTON — President Trump, whose sometimes erratic behavior in office has generated an unprecedented debate about his mental health, declared on Saturday that he was perfectly sane and accused his critics of raising questions to score political points.

In a series of Twitter posts that were extraordinary even by the standards of his norm-shattering presidency, Mr. Trump insisted that his opponents and the news media were attacking his capacity because they had failed to prove his campaign conspired with Russia during the 2016 presidential campaign.

“Now that Russian collusion, after one year of intense study, has proven to be a total hoax on the American public, the Democrats and their lapdogs, the Fake News Mainstream Media, are taking out the old Ronald Reagan playbook and screaming mental stability and intelligence,” he wrote on Twitter even as a special counsel continues to investigate the Russia matter.

“Actually, throughout my life, my two greatest assets have been mental stability and being, like, really smart,” he added. He said he was a “VERY successful businessman” and television star who won the presidency on his first try. “I think that would qualify as not smart, but genius....and a very stable genius at that!”

Elaborating during a meeting with reporters at Camp David later in the day, Mr. Trump again ticked off what he called a high-achieving academic and career record. He raised the matter “only because I went to the best colleges, or college,” he said. Referring to a new book citing concerns about his fitness, he said, “I consider it a work of fiction and I consider it a disgrace.”

The president’s engagement on the issue is likely to fuel the long-simmering argument about his state of mind that has roiled the political and psychiatric worlds and thrust the country into uncharted territory. Democrats in Congress have introduced legislation to force the president to submit to psychological evaluation. Mental health professionals have signed a petition calling for his removal from office. Others call armchair diagnoses a dangerous precedent or even a cover for partisan attacks.

In the past week alone, a new book resurfaced previously reported concerns among the president’s own advisers about his fitness for office, the question of his mental state came up at two White House briefings and the secretary of state was asked if Mr. Trump was mentally fit. After the president boasted that his “nuclear button” was bigger than Kim Jong-un’s in North Korea, Richard W. Painter, a former adviser to President George W. Bush, described the claim as proof that Mr. Trump is “psychologically unfit” and should have his powers transferred to Vice President Mike Pence under the Constitution’s 25th Amendment.

Mr. Trump’s self-absorption, impulsiveness, lack of empathy, obsessive focus on slights, tenuous grasp of facts and penchant for sometimes far-fetched conspiracy theories have generated endless op-ed columns, magazine articles, books, professional panel discussions and cable television speculation.

“The level of concern by the public is now enormous,” said Bandy X. Lee, a forensic psychiatrist at Yale School of Medicine and editor of “The Dangerous Case of Donald Trump: 27 Psychiatrists and Mental Health Experts Assess a President,” a book released last fall. “They’re telling us to speak more loudly and clearly and not to stop until something is done because they are terrified.”

As Politico reported, Dr. Lee was invited to Capitol Hill last month to meet with about a dozen members of Congress to discuss the matter. But all but one of the lawmakers she briefed are Democrats. While some Republicans have raised concerns, they do so mostly in private. Others scoff at the question, dismissing it as outrageous character assassination.

Few questions irritate White House aides more than inquiries about the president’s mental well-being, and they argue that Mr. Trump’s opponents are trying to use those questions to achieve what they could not at the ballot box.

“This shouldn’t be dignified with a response,” said Kellyanne Conway, the White House counselor.

“The partisans on Capitol Hill consulting with psychologists should reorient their spare time: support the president’s positive agenda of middle class tax cuts, rebuilding infrastructure and the military, investing in our work force,” Ms. Conway said later in an email. “The never-ending attempt to nullify an election is tiresome; if they were truly ‘worried about the country,’ they’d get to work to help it.”

Thomas J. Barrack, a friend of Mr. Trump’s, was quoted in Michael Wolff’s new book, “Fire and Fury: Inside the Trump White House,” as telling a friend that the president was “not only crazy but stupid.” In interviews, Mr. Barrack denied that and insisted that many people miss Mr. Trump’s actual brilliance.

“Potus has learned over time that Socratic testing and a lack of predictability is a worthy weapon in both negotiations and in keeping his team well honed, unentitled and on alert,” he said, using the initials for president of the United States. “He has no truck with political correctness, self-promotion or personal hubris of his team. This may cause him to appear at times to be overly realistic, blunt or to be politically insensitive even to his own subordinates. However, that is not the case.”

Still, in private, advisers to the president have at times expressed concerns. In private conversations over the last year, people who were new to Mr. Trump in the White House, which was most of the West Wing staff, have tried to process the president’s speaking style, his temper, his disinterest in formal briefings, his obsession with physical appearances and his concern about the theatrics and excitement of his job.

In conversations with friends, Jared Kushner, the president’s son-in-law and senior adviser, has said Mr. Trump is “crazy but he’s a genius.” Other advisers speak about the president as a volatile personality who has to be managed carefully. While Mr. Wolff’s book generated enormous attention, news accounts over the past year have reported the president’s mood swings and unpredictable behavior.....\

Some psychiatrists have said it is irresponsible to throw around medical terms without an examination.
“These amateurs shouldn’t be diagnosing at a distance, and they don’t know what they’re talking about,” said Allen Frances, a former psychiatry department chairman at Duke University School of Medicine who helped develop the profession’s diagnostic standards for mental disorders.
Dr. Frances, author of “Twilight of American Sanity: A Psychiatrist Analyzes the Age of Trump,” said the president’s bad behavior should not be blamed on mental illness. “He is definitely unstable,” Dr. Frances said. “He is definitely impulsive. He is world-class narcissistic not just for our day but for the ages. You can’t say enough about how incompetent and unqualified he is to be leader of the free world. But that does not make him mentally ill.”
cbs news

Wolff says understanding the "emperor has no clothes" will end Trump's presidency

Wolff says understanding the "emperor has no clothes" will end Trump's presidency

Last Updated Jan 6, 2018 12:52 PM EST
Michael Wolff, author of the new bombshell book "Fire and Fury: Inside Trump's White House," told the BBC in an interview broadcast Saturday that he believes understanding revelations resulting from his book about President Trump will "finally end this presidency."
"You know I think one of the interesting effects of the book so far is a very clear, 'emperor has no clothes' effect — that the story that I've told seems to present this presidency in such a way that it says he can't do this job, the emperor has no clothes, and suddenly everywhere people are going, 'Oh my God it's true, he has no clothes.' That's the background to the perception and the understanding that will finally end this presidency," Wolff told the BBC.
"Fire and Fury," released Friday, describes Mr. Trump in an unflattering light, as someone prone to fits of frustration who eats cheeseburgers and watches TV in bed at 6:30 p.m., and whose capabilities are questioned by his entire senior staff. 
"He doesn't read, he doesn't listen, he's profoundly uncurious. He's just interested in what he's interested in and isn't interested in the larger problems of the world, almost any of them," Wolff told the BBC.
"That's on the one hand, so the other side is he's experiencing now issues, fundamentally physical, mental issues..." Wolff continued. 
Wolff, who says he conducted more than 200 interviews for his book and took up a semi-permanent seat in the West Wing for months, was asked if he sees Mr. Trump as someone who is mentally incapable of being president of the United States. 
"Well, I think he's intellectually incapable of being president of the United States," Wolff told the BBC. 
Mr. Trump took to Twitter early Saturday to defend himself, calling himself " a very stable genius" and slamming Wolff, saying he made up stories to sell his book.